Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke ntho e tsotehang eo re e utloang haholoanyane ka matsatsi ana. Har'a lintho tsohle tse lemalloang, ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke hangata ho ba le litšifa tse kang, "Haeba ke ne ke tla lemaletse, ke tla ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate." Sena se phahamisa potso, na ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke ntho ea sebele?
Batho ba bangata ba tsilatsila ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate e le boiteko ba lefeela ba ho fana ka tumello ho seo motho a se nang boikarabelo kapa meharo.
Ba bang ba re batho bao ha ba tsebe kapa ha ba tsotelle bohloko boo ba bo utloang bo atisang ho tlalehoa ke ba ikutloang ba le balekane ba ho kopanela liphate le baratuoa ba bona.
Ka morao
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate hase khopolo e ncha. Litlaleho tsa histori tsa Roma le lekholong la bobeli la lilemo Greece li tlaleha ho kopanela liphate ho feteletseng, tse tsejoang hape ka hore ke bosodoma kapa hyperaesthesia, le nymphomania kapa furor uterinum (uterine fury) ho basali.
Khopolo ea kajeno ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate e ile ea atolosoa ke Dr. Patrick Carnes, mongoli oa "Out of the Shadows: Ho utloisisa ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate" le mookameli oa litšebeletso tsa mathata a thobalano setsing sa bophelo sa Arizona. Metsoalle le basebetsi-'moho le eena ba ngotse libuka tse 'maloa tabeng ena,' me ba atisa ho laola kutloisiso e tloaelehileng ea ho lemalla thobalano. Leha ho le joalo, ba bang ba boetse ba ngotse ka ho teba tabeng ena, ho akarelletsa le bafuputsi le batho ba lumelang hore ba na le bothata ba ho lemalla thobalano.
Goodman o phehile hore, le hoja ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho e-na le likarolo tsa khatello ea ho qobella le ea ho laola maikutlo, ha e lumellane ka ho hlaka ho se seng kapa sefe. O ile a fana ka tlhahiso ea hore e hlalosoe ka ho fetisisa e le lithethefatsi le litekanyetso tsa tlhahlobo ea ho hlahloba tse lumellanang le litekanyetso tsa ho itšetleha ka joala le lithethefatsi ho DSM 5 , buka ea boitsebiso bakeng sa ho hlahlojoa ha lingaka.
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho ne ho sa kenyelletsoa DSM 5, ho sa tsotellehe maemo a mangata a amanang le ho kopanela liphate ho fokolang-ho tšoana le boloetse ba takatso ea botona kapa botšehali ba ho kopanela liphate le bothata ba ho khaotsa ho kopanela liphate - ho kenyelletsoa.
Sena se loantšana le khethollo e hlokang ho lemoha takatso e feteletseng ea thobalano kapa polelo e le bothata. Ka mantsoe a mang, kamehla ho ba le takatso ea ho kopanela liphate, ho tsosoa ha thobalano, likamano tsa botona le botšehali, le ho finyella likamano tsa botona le botšehali ho nkoa e le ntho e tloaelehileng ho banna le basali, ho sa tsotellehe hore batho ba sa khoneng ho ba le bothata leha e le efe ea mehato ena ea ho kopanela liphate ke ba fokolang. Ka kakaretso, ho ba le takatso e fokolang ea ho kopanela liphate le mesebetsi e nkoa e le bothata bo boholo ho feta ho ba le takatso e eketsehileng ea thobalano
Lilemong tse fetileng tse fetileng, sechaba se 'nile sa lumellana haholo le likarolo tse sa tšoaneng tsa thobalano le ho kopanela liphate e le motheo oa mefuta e mengata ea boithabiso. Lilemong tse mashome tsa morao tjena, indasteri ea meriana e tšehetse sena, ka ts'ebetso ea lithethefatsi tse kang Viagra e tiisang maikutlo a hore motho ha a phele bophelo bo phethehileng le bo thabileng ntle le thobalano e tloaelehileng, e se nang mathata. Boemong bona, ha ho makatse hore ebe batho ba bangata ba ntse ba ameha haholo ka thobalano, le hore ba neng ba ka 'na ba inehela meketeng e meng ea boipheliso ba ntse ba e-na le boitšoaro bo hlephileng ba ho kopanela liphate.
Tlhekefetso ea thobalano lihloohong
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho ile ha e-ba le tlhokomelo e atileng ka 2009 ha moetsi oa lipapali David Duchovny - ea neng a bonahala a thabile lenyalong le lelapa - a maketse lefatše ka ho lumela phatlalatsa ho ba lekhoba la ho kopanela liphate le ho kena rehab . Ho elella bofelong ba selemo, ba bangata ba nahanne hore na sefofane se bitsoang Tiger Woods se ne se le mothating oa ho kopanela liphate ka mor'a hore basali ba 'maloa ba ipolele hore ba na le litaba tsa lenyalo le eena.
Inthanete e entse hore batho ba nang le lik'homphieutha ba be le litšoantšo tse ngata tsa bootsoa. Batho ba bangata ba hlaseloa ka papatso ea litšoantšo tsa bootsoa le tsa khoebo ntle le ho ba batla.
Batho ba bangata ba pepesehela litšoantšo tsa bootsoa ho feta leha e le neng pele, ho kenyeletsa bana le bacha, mme mofuta oa websaete o etsa hore ho be thata (haeba ho ke ke ha khoneha) ho hlahloba kapa ho beha meeli ho mofuta kapa boholo ba se hlalositsoeng. Ho phaella moo, ho bonolo ho fumana le ho tsamaisa litaba tsa inthanete , kapa ho intša ka marang-rang ka libaka tse kang tinder .
Ka nako e ts'oanang, ho na le ts'oaetso e ntseng e eketseha ka ho sebelisa lithethefatsi tsa lithethefatsi Inthaneteng, mofuta oa ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho ea inthaneteng , e leng ho feta ho fana ka tšehetso bakeng sa batho ba ikutloang ba sebelisa litšoantšo tsa bootsoa ke ho feteletseng, ho sa tsotellehe, kapa ho ba bakela mathata. Ntle le litšebeletso tse lekaneng tsa phekolo, likamano le malapa li tla tsoela pele ho loana, hangata sephiring, ka mathata ao ba sa hlomelloa ka ho lekaneng ho sebetsana le 'ona. Likarolo tse ka tlase-tlas'a sepakapaka le hangata tse bolileng tsa indasteri ea thobalano li entse ho se na thuso ho fana ka lichelete tsa lipatlisiso kapa tsa kalafo kapa litšehetso tse ling bakeng sa batho ba lemetseng ke liphello tsa bona. Sena se fapane le indasteri ea papali ea chelete, ka mohlala, e tšehetsoeng lipatlisiso kalafo le lits'ebeletso.
Taba ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate
Lipatlisiso li bontša hore mokhoa o tšoanang oa moputso o boemong ba bokooa o nkoa e le ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate joalo ka lithethefatsi tse ling tse ngata, ho kopanyelletsa le ho lemalla lithethefatsi. Sena se tšehetsa khopolo ea hore ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho na le ts'ebetso ea 'mele le ea kelello e tšoanang le lithethefatsi tse ling.
Batho ba nang le bothata ba ho kopanela liphate hangata ba na le mathata a ho lemala ka nakoana kapa / kapa boitšoaro, kapa "crossover" ho lithethefatsi tse ling ha ba leka ho hlōla ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate. Bangoli ba bang ba bolela hore sena se fana ka ts'ehetso ho tiisetso ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate e le bothata ba ho lemala le hore, haeba ho hlokomeloa, kotsi e fetisisang e ka rarolloa ka ho toba ho thibela hore e se ke ea etsahala kalafo ea lithethefatsi tse ling.
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho baka mahlomola a mangata ho ba amehileng le ba ratehang. Takatso ea thobalano le maikutlo ho batho ba nang le lithethefatsi tsa thobalano hangata ho tlalehoa e le ntho e ke keng ea lekanngoa le e sa thabiseng, e fapaneng ka ho feletseng le tsela eo litlaleho tsa thobalano tse phetseng hantle li tlalehoang, tseo ka tloaelo li hlalositsoeng e le tse khotsofatsang le tse khotsofatsang 'meleng le maikutlong. Ho lemoha ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho bolela hore batho bana ba ka fumana thuso eo ba e hlokang hore ba hlōle bokhoba ba bona, 'me qetellong ba tsosolose likamano tsa thobalano tse monate.
Hona joale, ho fokolloa ha litšebeletso tsa lithethefatsi habonolo ho fana ka thuso ho batho ba nang le bothata ba ho kopanela liphate. Ho ela hloko ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho ka lumella phekolo ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho kenyeletsoa litšebeletsong tsa lithethefatsi. Kaha ho na le koetliso e khethehileng ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ho fanoang ho basebeletsi ba litšebeletso tsa lithethefatsi, batho ba bangata ba ka fumanoa habonolo ka thuso ea lithethefatsi tsa thobalano
Taba e khahlanong le ho lemalla thobalano
Tlhaloso ea bohlokoa ea khopolo ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke hore ha e fane ka phapang e lekaneng pakeng tsa maemo a fapaneng a ka 'nang a shebahala joaloka ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate, joalo ka ho kopanela liphate ho tsamaisana le mania kapa hypomania ka lefu la ho ferekana kelellong; litšitiso tsa boits'oaro; mathata a botho; mefuta e meng ea ho tepella maikutlo; OCD le PTSD.
Bahlahlobisisi ba maikutlo a ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ba pheha khang ea hore e hōlile ka mokhoa oa setso o kopantseng ho kopanela liphate le kotsi, ho hloka matla le ho hlekefetsoa, 'me ke mokhoa o mocha oa ho etsa litloaelo tsa boitšoaro ka batho ba ratang ho kopanela liphate. Ha e le joalo, e ka sebelisoa ke batho ba nang le moralo oa lipolotiki le oa bolumeli hore e be bobe ka thobalano.
Hape ho na le kotsing ea hore letšoao la ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate le ka tšoaetsa takatso e tloaelehileng ea thobalano le boitšoaro, ho etsa hore batho ba phetseng hantle ba bonahale eka ba na le boloetse bo teng. Khopolo ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate e boetse e nyatsuoa ka lebaka la ho itšetleha ka maikutlo a hore liketsahalo tse ling tsa thobalano, mohlala, likamano tsa botona le botšehali, li molemo ho feta tse ling. Tsena li pheha khang ea ho ba le mekhoa ea boitšoaro ho e-na le litsekisano tsa bongaka.
Ka lehlakoreng le leng la litekanyetso, batho ba bang ba lumela hore letšoao le kang ho lemalla thobalano le ka sebelisoa e le lebaka la boitšoaro bo bobe ba ho kopanela liphate, joalo ka ho betoa le ho hlekefetsoa ha bana. Ho ea ka ts'oaetso ena, batho ba entseng litlōlo tsa molao tsa thobalano ba ka ipata ka mor'a letšoao la ho lemalla thobalano le ho qoba ho nka boikarabelo ba liketso tsa bona. Liketso tsena li nkoa li se na boikemelo, 'me khopolo ea hore thobalano ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate e khothalletsa batho ho ba le kutloelo-bohloko le kutloelo-bohloko ho batho ba sa tšoaneloang ke kutloelo-bohloko e boetse e se na boikemelo.
Qetellong, ho na le khang e hlakileng ka lithethefatsi tsohle tsa boitšoaro - ho lemalla ho hokae ka ho itšetleha ka lik'hemik'hale, 'me ho sa tsotellehe hore na mokhoa oa boitšoaro o tšoana joang, ho lemalla ho etsahala ho amanang le lithethefatsi tse sa tsitsang le ho sa itšoare hantle.
Moo o Neng o Qala
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate, kapa ka mokhoa o feteletseng oa boitšoaro bo bobe ba ho kopanela liphate, ho tsebahala haholo mecheng ea litaba le mekhoeng e tsebahalang. Ho hōla ha marang-rang ho lebisa tlhokomelo e sa lekanyetsoang ea " lithethefatsi tsa litaba tsa ho kopanela liphate le ba bang", tse akarelletsang ho lemalla litšoantšo tsa bootsoa le ho lemalla likamano tsa thobalano le balekane, ho kopanyelletsa le basebeletsi ba thobalano. Leha ho le joalo, sechaba sa mafu a kelello se 'nile sa tsilatsila ho amohela ho kopanela liphate ho feteletseng, ka boeona, e le boloetse.
Ka 1987, Mokhatlo oa Tsoelo-pele ea Bophelo bo Botle ba Botona le Botšehali (SASH) o thehiloe ho fana ka patlisiso ho fihlela ho litho tsa setsebi tse sebetsanang le lithethefatsi tsa thobalano le sechaba. Ba hatisa koranta ea ho kopanela liphate le ho qobelloa ho ba le boikemelo: Journal of Treatment and Prevention, le ho tšoara seboka selemo le selemo ho phatlalatsa liphuputso tsa lipatlisiso mabapi le ho lemalla thobalano.
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