Na ka Sebele U ka Lemalla ho Kopanela Liphate?
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate, joalo ka lintho tse ling tse lemalloang, ke mokhoa oa boitšoaro bo hlephileng oa malapa o itšetlehileng ka mefuta e fapa-fapaneng ea maikutlo a thobalano e le hore o sebetsane ka katleho le khatello ea bophelo. Joaloka mekhoa e meng ea lithethefatsi, ho na le mekhoa ea boitšoaro ea liketso, e akarelletsang:
- ho khothaletsa le litakatso tsa ho kopanela liphate
- mokhoa oa ho rera le ho itšoara ka thobalano
- boikutlo ba boikhathollo le boithabiso ha ba ntse ba etsa thobalano , ba lateloa ke nako ea ho ikhula le litakatso tse phetoang
Tšebeliso ea ho Kopanela Liphate e Fapana Joang le ho Thabela ho Kopanela Liphate Joang?
Se etsang hore ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke ts'oaetso, ho fapana le ho thabela ho kopanela liphate le balekane ba bangata, ke:
- mokhoa o pheta-phetoang oa mokhoa oa ho nahana le boitšoaro, o tsoelang pele ho sa tsotellehe liphello tse mpe
- boitšoaro bo lemalang bo tsoelapele ka nako e telele
- hang ha liphello li hlakile 'me moriana o sitoa ho emisa boitšoaro, ba ikutloa ba lahleheloa ke taolo
Ho na le mekhoa e mengata ea ho kopanela liphate ho tloha ho ba nang le bokooa ho senokoane se bakang liphello tse fapaneng, tseo tse ling li amang bohle ba nang le mathata a ho kopanela liphate (joalo ka mathata a kamano), 'me tse ling tsa tsona li ama batho ba seng bakae (maloetse a tšoaetsanoang ka thobalano, litaba tsa lichelete le tsa molao mathata).
Kalafo ea Tlhekefetso ea Thobalano
Thuso e atlehang e fumaneha bakeng sa ba lemaletseng ho kopanela liphate.
Mekhoa e meng ea lithethefatsi e qalileng ho thusa batho ho hlōla mathata a joala le lithethefatsi e boetse e tšoara batho ba nang le lithethefatsi tsa ho kopanela liphate, le hoja ho se joalo ka lits'ebetso tsohle tsa lithethefatsi.
Litsi tsa litsebi, hangata mekhatlo e ikemetseng, e fana ka kalafo ka ho khetheha bakeng sa ho lemalla thobalano le tšehetso ea lichelete ha ho bonolo ho e fumana joaloka chelete ea phekolo ea joala le lithethefatsi.
Hape ho na le lihlopha tse 'maloa tsa ts'ehetso tsa mohato tse fumanehang bakeng sa ba lemaletseng thobalano.
Khang ea ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate
Ho na le bopaki bo ntseng bo eketseha ba ho lemalla thobalano ho latela mekhoa e tšoanang le ea boitšoaro le ho kenyelletsa mekhoa e tšoanang ea bokooa lits'etsong tse ling.
Leha ho le joalo, ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ha hona joale ho hlokomeloe ka Tlhahlobo ea Lipatlisiso le Statistical of Mental Disorders. Le hoja ho ne ho etsoa tlhahlobo e ncha ea Hypersexual Disorder ho DSM-V, ha ea ka ea amoheloa.
Ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate ke taba e thata bakeng sa litsebi tse peli le sechaba ho nka ka botebo. Ho na le mabaka a mangata a sena:
- Ho kopanela liphate ho akaretsa mekhoa e mengata ea mekhoa ea boitšoaro. Tse ling, tse kang ho ipholla litho tsa botona kapa botšehali, li tloaelehile ha tse ling, tse kang tse ling tse sa tloaelehang, li sa lebelloa ebile li le hōle le boitšoaro bo "tloaelehileng" boo ba bang ba thatafalloang ho bo utloisisa kapa bo utloisisang boipiletso bo joalo.
- Ho amoheloa ho sa hlokahaleng ha takatso ea ho kopanela liphate e le matla a bokahohle le a matlafatsang ke motheo oa ho kopanela liphate.
- Ho ferekanngoa ho pota-potileng se neng se tla ba "ho hlaphoheloa" ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate, e le ho ithiba, tlhaloso ea ho hlaphoheloa ha meriana e meng e mengata, hase tsela e nepahetseng kapa tebello e loketseng bakeng sa batho ba bangata.
- Ho kopanela liphate e ntse e le e 'ngoe ea lihlooho tse kholo ka ho fetisisa sechabeng, kahoo batho ba nang le lithethefatsi tsa thobalano ba atisa ho songoa le ho nyelisoa ka tsela eo batho ba nang le maemo a mang ba sa sebetsaneng ka eona.
- Hobane batho ba bang ba nang le lithethefatsi tsa ho kopanela liphate ke, maemong a mang, ba hlekefetsang ba bang ka thobalano, ho lemalla thobalano ho ka bonoa e le "lebaka" la ho se tsotelle le boitšoaro bo nyefolang.
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