Mefuta e 10 ea Tlhekefetso ea ho Kopanela Liphate ha U e Bitse Lerato

Tloaelo e tloaelehileng ea ho lemalla thobalano

Bukeng ea hae, U se ke ua Call It Love , setsebi sa ho lemalla ho kopanela liphate Dr. Patrick Carnes o hlalosa phapang pakeng tsa mefuta e leshome ea boitšoaro bo bobe ba ho kopanela liphate le kamano e haufi-ufi eo u tla e fumana le seo a se bitsang "lerato la 'nete."

Maikutlo mabapi le se boleloang ke boitšoaro bo hlephileng ba thobalano a fapana har'a litsebi le sechaba. Ka ho hlakileng, tse ling tsa boitšoaro bo joalo, tse kang ho kopanela liphate, li etsa likamano tse nepahetseng tsa thobalano, ha tse ling, tse kang ho kopanela liphate ka mokhoa o tsitsitseng, li na le bothata bo bongata boemong leha e le bofe.

1 - Pono ea ho Kopanela Liphate

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Ho kopanela liphate ka mokhoa o tsotehang ke ho hlola ho hoholo ka maikutlo a ho kopanela liphate, ho e-na le maikutlo a sebele a ho kopanela liphate, boitšoaro ba thobalano le likamano tsa botona le botšehali. E ka u sitisa ho hlaolela maikutlo a lerato a nnete a thehiloeng ho amohela ba bang kamoo ba leng kateng.

2 - Ho kopanela liphate ka boikarabelo

Ho kopanela liphate ho itšehla thajana ho lebisa tlhokomelo ho khahlehang, ho susumetsa kapa ho laola ba bang ho kopanela liphate. U tšoara motho eo u tla nyalana le eena e le "tlhōlo" kapa phephetso ho etsa hore u ikutloe u le matla haholoanyane.

3 - Ho se Tsejoe ka ho Kopanela Liphate

Ho kopanela liphate ho sa tsejoe ke ho kopanela liphate le batho bao u sa ba tsebeng, ho kopanyelletsa le bosiu bo bong u eme ka Tinder Ho kopanela liphate ho sa tsejoe ho thusa motho ea lemalang ho qoba ho ba le maikutlo a lerato a sebele.

4 - Ho lefa thobalano

Ho lefella thobalano ho boetse ho thibela kgokahanyo ea 'nete, ka lebaka la tokisetso e entsoeng ea khoebo. Motho eo u mo lefang ke ho batla chelete, eseng kamano e lerato.

5 - Ho Kopanela Liphate

Karolo e 'ngoe ea thekiso ea ho lefella thobalano e amohela chelete kapa thepa bakeng sa thobalano kapa ho sebelisa thobalano e le khoebo. Ho kopanela liphate e ba ntho ea bohlokoa, ho e-na le ho ba le phihlelo ea bona, 'me maikutlo a maikutlo a fokotseha.

6 - Ho kopanela liphate ka boithaopo

Ho kopanela liphate ka boithaopo ho lebisa tlhokomelo ho shebe ba bang ba kopanela liphate. U qala ho kopanela liphate ka ho sheba litšoantšo tsa bootsoa ho tloha ho:

Ho ipholla litho tsa botona kapa botšehali ho feteletseng, ho tloaelehile ho batho ba bang. Ba kopanela mesebetsing ea boinotšing, ho e-na le ho kopana le motho e mong, ho netefatsa hore kamano e haufi-ufi le lerato ha e khetholle.

7 - Ho Kopanela Liphate ho Exhibitionistic

Ho kopanela liphate ho bonts'a maikutlo ho kenyelletsa likarolo tsa 'mele tse hanetsoeng', ka linako tse ling ha li apara liaparo tse reretsoeng ho pepesa. Mefuta e meng ea likamano tsa botona le botšehali e akarelletsa ho sheba litšoantšo tsa bootsoa le ho kopanela liphate moo ba bang ba ka bonang teng.

Lipontšo li ka fetela likamano tsa sebele tsa lerato hobane thabo e tlisoa ke karabo ea maikutlo, eseng ho kopanela liphate le molekane oa hau.

8 - Ho kopanela liphate ka thobalano

Ho kopanela liphate ka ho feteletseng ho ama ho ama ba bang ntle le tumello. E ka 'na ea akarelletsa ho sebelisa hampe boemo ba hau ba matla kapa bolaoli, joalo ka karolo ea moprista, mookameli kapa mosuoe, ho senya ba bang hampe.

Ho kopanela liphate ka mokhoa o tsosang takatso ho na le mekhoa e metle ea ho kopanela liphate, ho etsa hore ho se ke ha khoneha ho theha motheo oa ho tšepa kapa ho rata. Bahlaseluoa ba ka 'na ba ba le maikutlo a botšepehi ho moetsi oa tšoaetso.

9 - Pain Exchange

Ho fana kapa ho amohela mahlomola, a tsejoang hape e le sadomasochism kapa S & M, ke mofuta oa boitšoaro bo hlephileng ba ho kopanela liphate moo barupeluoa ba lumelang ba kopantseng bohloko ka ho thabela thobalano.

Joalo ka ho kopanela liphate ka bohale, bahlaseluoa ba ka 'na ba lemoha maikutlo a bona ho bahlorisi ba bona ka lerato.

10 - Ho Kopanela Liphate ka ho Kopanela Liphate

Ho hlekefetsa le ho iphelisa ke mekhoa ea ho kopanela liphate. Hobane motho a le mong o tlōla litokelo tsa botho tsa e mong, ha ho na monyetla oa lerato la 'nete kapa kamano e haufi-ufi.