Mokhoa oa ho ba le tšusumetso e fetisisang
Mantsoeng a mahlano a botho, tlhaloso e fetisisang (e atisang ho tsejoa e le ho tsosolosa) ke e 'ngoe ea litšobotsi tse hlano tsa mantlha tse lumeloang ho bōpa botho ba botho. Phapanyetsano e khetholloa ka botsoalle, ho bua, ho tiisa le ho tsitlella.
Batho ba phahameng ka ho feteletseng ba atisa ho batla boiketlo ba sechaba le menyetla ea ho kopanela le ba bang.
Hangata batho bana ba hlalosoa ba tletse bophelo, matla le positivity . Maemong a lihlopha, litlhaloso tse ngata (litlhaloso tse ling) li ka 'na tsa bua hangata' me li ikemela.
Ka lehlakoreng le leng, li-introverts ke batho ba fokolang haholo. Ba atisa ho khutsa, ba bolokehileng le ho se amehe haholo maemong a sechaba. Ke habohlokoa ho hlokomela hore ho kenyelletsa letsoho le lihlong hase ntho e le 'ngoe. Batho ba fokolang haholo ha ba tšabe maemo a sechaba, ba mpa ba khetha ho qeta nako e ngata ba le bang 'me ha ba hloke ho ts'oanela batho ba bang.
Hangata ho bua ka mokhoa o fosahetseng ho thoe o na le maikutlo a feteletseng-ho bua kapa ho batla tlhokomelo. Ha e le hantle, ba mpa ba fumana matla a ho kopanela liphate. Batho ba phahameng haholo ba hloka ho tsosoa moeeng hore ba ikutloe ba matlafalitsoe. Ba fumana ts'usumetso le thabo ea ho bua le ho buisana ka maikutlo le batho ba bang.
Litloaelo tse tloaelehileng tsa ho bua
Hangata ho kenyelletsa maikutlo ho tšoauoa ka mekhoa e sa tšoaneng e sa tšoaneng.
Tse ling li kenyelletsa:
- Mofuthu
- Ho batla mokhoa o motle le thabo
- Ho ba le boikokobetso
- Ho tiisa
- Ho thaba
- Tlhaloso
- Thabela ho ba bohareng ba tlhokomelo
- E sebetsanang le liketso
- E motsoalle
- Ho kopanela
Ke Eng e Bakang Extroversion?
Lebaka le tobileng la hore na batho ba atisa ho ba le maikutlo a mangata kapa ho ba le tsebo e eketsehileng e bile taba ea phehisano e kholo le lipatlisiso ka kelello ea kelello.
Joaloka likhang tse ngata tse joalo, potso ena e atisa ho pheha ho bafani ba babeli ba bohlokoa: tlhaho kapa tlhokomelo .
- Ho hlakile hore Extroversion e na le matla a liphatsa tsa lefutso . Liphuputso tsa bobeli li fana ka maikutlo a hore liphatsa tsa lefutso li fana ka karolo ea pakeng tsa 40 le 60 lekholong ea phapang pakeng tsa ho tsitlella maikutlo le ho hlahisa maikutlo.
- Tikoloho e ka boela ea ba le tšusumetso . Liphuputso tsa bo-'mè li bontšitse hore liphihlelo tsa batho ka bomong li nka boima ho feta kamoo ba nang le phihlelo malapeng.
- Bafuputsi ba bang ba kenyeletsang Hans Eysenck ba bontšitse hore ho fetoha ha mokhoa ona ho ka 'na ha amahanngoa le phapang pakeng tsa li-cortical. Lintho tse fetisisang li atisa ho hloka lintlheng tse ling tsa ho kantle ha li-introverts li atisa ho fetoha habonolo.
Pherekano le Boitšoaro
Ho senya maikutlo ho ama boitšoaro ba rona joang? Bafuputsi ba hlokometse hore ho ba le tšobotsi e phahameng ea botho bona ho amana le mekhoa e sa tšoaneng e fapaneng. Ntle le ho kenya letsoho ho botho ba rona, mokhoa ona o ka boela oa phetha karolo ea mosebetsi oo re qetellang re o khetha.
Ho ea ka bafuputsi, ho kenyelletsa maikutlo ho amana le boitšoaro ba boeta-pele. Kaha lipolelo li ka 'na tsa itlhahisa ka lihlopha, hoa utloahala hore hangata batho bana ba nka boikarabelo ba boeta-pele ha ba sebetsa le batho ba bang.
Lipatlisiso li bontšitse hape hore litlhaloso tse ling ha li khone ho tšoenyeha ka maikutlo a fosahetseng. Ba phahameng ka ho feteletseng ba atisa ho hlalosoa ba e-na le pono e nepahetseng ka bophelo hammoho le ho ba botsoalle, ho ba mafolofolo le ho ikamahanya le maemo . Litloaelo tsena kaofela li ka thusa motho hantle, haholo-holo maemong a itseng a sechaba.
Joalokaha u ka inahanela, maemo a phahameng a ho qabana a ka ba a tšoanelehang ka ho khetheha mesebetsing e hlokang ho sebelisana haholo le batho ba bang . Ho ruta, ho rekisa, ho rekisa, likamano tsa sechaba, le lipolotiking ke mesebetsi eo ho eona ho ka thoeng motho ea ts'oanelang ho phela hantle.
Li-introverts li rata ho sebelisana le batho ba seng bakae e le hore mesebetsi e hlokang mosebetsi o mongata oa boipuso hangata e ntle.
Ho ngola, mananeo a k'homphieutha, boenjiniere le boikarabello ke mesebetsi e ka 'nang ea ipiletsa ho motho ea fokolang.
Ke Tsela e Tloaelehileng ea ho Khatholla?
Le hoja ho ka 'na ha bonahala eka motho e mong le e mong oa metsoalle ea hao le metsoalle ea hae o ratoa haholo hoo uena, patlisiso ea morao-rao e hlileng e bonts'ang hore ho feteletsa maikutlo ha ho tloaelehe ho feta kamoo ho neng ho nahanoa kateng pele. Phuputsong e phatlalalitsoeng ho Psychological Science, bafuputsi ba fumane hore ho fetoloa ha lipolelo ho bonahala eka ho feteletsoa libakeng tsa marang-rang . Hobane batho ba tloaelehileng, ba tloaelehileng ba atisa ho ba le metsoalle e mengata, ba emeloa ka mokhoa o sa tloaelehang mananeong a sechaba.
Mofuputsi Daniel C. Feiler oa Univesithi ea Darmouth o ile a re: "Haeba u se u hlokomolohile, u ka 'na ua ba le pono e nepahetseng ea hore na batho ba bang ba ntšetsa pele joang." "Haeba u kenyelitsoe haholo, u ka ba le maikutlo a nepahetseng a nepahetseng."
Bafuputsi ba boela ba fana ka maikutlo a hore ho na le lintlha tse peli tse ka sehloohong tse khethollang batho hore ba be metsoalle ea bona. Batho ba bangata ba rata ho ba le metsoalle e mengata haholo, ho etsa hore ba be le setsoalle se secha ho feta li-introverts. Batho ba boetse ba tloaetse ho theha setsoalle le batho ba nang le litekanyetso tse tšoanang tsa ho tsitlella maikutlo joaloka bona.
Le hoja litlhaloso tse ling li ka 'na tsa e-ba metsoalle le litlhaloso tse ling, li-introverts li atisa ho theha likamano le bobeli ba li-introverts le tse fanang ka maikutlo. E le ho bua ka mokhoa o feteletseng, ho bonahala eka batho ba bangata le bona ba nyelisitsoe hobane tšobotsi eo ea botho e fetisetsoa ho feta sehlopha sa metsoalle le metsoalle. Leha ho le joalo, li-introverts, li ka 'na tsa utloisisa hamolemo mohaho oa' nete oa liwebsaete tsa batho.
Litlhahiso
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